Hold On

Song: Hold On by Flame
In light of the tragic news of Kim Khardashian getting a divorce, I can't help but think- seriously? What in the world was the point of all the planning and money when really there was no investment in the relationship. The first indicator should be the prenuptial. To me this seems like an out. Either you're in for life, which means everything you own is mine or you think there is some potential that this will not work and this is your back up plan to cover yourself. I honestly don't care about her, her family or the story. But what does sadden me is how flippant some are with relationships and the lack of tenacity and stick-to-itiveness. Aren't some things worth fighting for? And why do we give up so easily? Is it because we really don't want it? Or because it takes work to obtain or keep what is best for us? I started to reflect this in every aspect of my life. Am I really fighting for what I want or am I giving in by settling for what I know? It's easy to fall into that rut. As for today, I say no more.

Movie: Rudy
I love a great underdog movie. I also love Sean Astin. Put the two together and of course this will be on my all time fave list. A college-aged boy has dreams of playing on the Notre Dame football team. Against all odds- his family's disbelief, his low grades and short stature- he proves that with hard work, determination and building friendships along the way- all things are possible.

Hot Glue

Song: Stuck on You by Lionel Ritchie
Some men have duct tape. I have hot glue.

When we first moved into the house- a year ago this month- we had several pieces of crown molding that needed to be secured in place. After 2 attempts by the maintenance man and some nail glue, the 2 pieces of crown molding lay nestled against the wall behind the sheer curtains. If you didn't know it was there well you didn't know it was there. But I did. It bothered me for some months. Months turned into 1 year as I thought I didn't have nail glue to apply and cause this faux wood to stay in place. Until 1 morning I woke up with a thought- nail glue is kind of the consistency of hot glue- it's worth a try. A few days later and those suckers are still in place. Will it last for seasons to come? It's questionable. I've had to repair my repairs with a second coat of hot glue before. I have things hot glued to the walls. Our sectional sofa upstairs is reupholstered with hot glue and staples-- thanks to my crafty friend Tara. What's interesting is this thought came right before church on Sunday when the pastor spoke on using tools aside from their actual function. (i.e. using a shoe for a hammer) There's something to be said about being resourceful.

Duncan the Wonder Dog

Song: Don't Rain On My Parade by Barbra Streisand

My world has recently changed. After several nos from the pet rescuers, I did what any girl desperate for a dog would do- I went to craigslist. This is where I found Duncan. A month prior I picked up a collection of short stories at the library about pet owners who had lost their beloved pets. I knew I would cry. I knew I would want my dog even more. And it was all true. The real concern happened when I found myself tearing up while helping a customer in a tacky embroidery dog t-shirt. Usually it would have been because they were too old to wear such a shirt but for that day it was because I was deemed an unfit parent by the pet rescuers. I would drive home and see people walking their dogs and wonder- did they have to go through rigorous questioning and home visits to get their dog? I don't think that means you love your pet more, it just means you're a serious pet owner. Duncan has been with me a week. He's a 4 month old black Scottish Terrier with brindle tipped ears. He has eyes that make you melt and make me talk in a very high pitched tone. I find myself rushing to want to get home- even taking my seat belt off before rounding the last corner to pull into the driveway.

I absolutely love him. And while he's a puppy and has already chewed through a cord and demolished a heel to one of my shoes, I know that all the training and bumps along the road will be well worth it. To some this may seem ridiculous. But for little ol me, he's the one consistent that needs me to love him. He doesn't judge me. He won't understand me all the time. But he'll never give up on me. He'll be there to console me and to love me along the way. I am so grateful for him.
Movie: My Dog Skip